Much of the pain black people claim they feel is the result of being dependent on the group. That’s why you often hear them wanting to be king, queen, leader, ironically of the group.
Cut those cords. The group is responsible for holding you down, out and back.
Survival of the group identity, not your own personal identity, is the reason the leaders of the group corral you, herd you, enslave you as their’s to own, abuse, exploit. The goal of the group is to make you act in the best interests of the group, not in your best interest.
Groups do not think nor operate in terms of the interests of the group and the interests of the individual as being equal. There is no equality within the group. You’re all slaves. You are a tool, not a worthy independent person.
Free yourselves from your own and soar in your public and private life.
If you fear that independence, that is proof of your enslavement.